The Fact of It All

So sorry for the Hiatus I've been working 70-80 hrs and my time has been filled with work food and sleep in that order... but im in a venting mood, and feel free to comment your thoughts after. so me and my girl in NY My love, my heart, my life; haven't been talking for a while cause of some events that she will appreciate not putting out there. and now im entertaining another girl at my job and the other girl has real feelings towards me and  she has no idea that i don't see her like that at all. If ii tell my girl she may or may not feel betrayed and if she does I've lost her, and if i tell the other girl the truth i will crush her and 1 shes a coworker and also she reminds me of myself when i was just out of high school. Happy go lucky, flirty, boisterous nature, loving hard every single time cause your just that full and then I come along and destroy her trust, her friendship, make her skeptic to no end of anyone she ever meets. I would be creating another Me and th...

So I've been dealing a lot with Divorce and how ugly it can be. Now before i begin this im not the one going through it but a member of my family is, i don't think he wants me talking directly about him and his situation so i'll call him Joe for the sake of privacy. So Joe hes a good guy, his kids love him; adore him is more accurate, he busts his ass to be everything he can and still ended up on the short end of stick. Now on a side note i know a lot of divorces with and without children involved are messy and i also know from accounts told and witnessed that they can be simple and a clean break so to speak. But this is nothing like that, take Nepotism add in a pinch of devil and just a sprinkle of narcissism and you have Her. Now im witnessing this as what feels like a bystander but in reality im right in the middle of it, seeing how I am in the middle of it. Literally! I've was in the wedding, i was there when they met, and I've unfortunately been a witness to ...

To those who have read my last two postings and or those who've been introduced to my blog first off welcome and thank you for giving my blog attention, it means a lot and it does make me feel as a writer that my words have a meaning. With that said, i want to apologize for the lull in time between posts. I just recently started a full time job and getting used to the work load has me all types of tired on levels i wasnt expecting. i do have a few topics earmarked for posting in the next few days hopefully. everything from the Met Gala to the unsettling nature of the current state of affairs on capitol hill. In the meantime i will be posting links and little posts to include some Q&A's on my twitter and facebook @Thefactofitall. i would love to connect with the readers i have so far and hopefully as the days progress i can get a better schedule down so that these posts keep flowing. Trump may want to rewrite the 1st ammendment but as long as i have breath and the means ...